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It's also about parity. We're not all powerhouses of trust, and it can be hard to see an old flame pop up. Especially with the meet happening at a nightclub, of all places.
I guess it also depends on the circumstances of the breakup, how it happened.
If you're not comfortable with it, she should respect you enough to accommodate you, within reason. If you felt you could/should trust her implicitly as others in this thread state, I suspect you wouldn't have posted in the first place. Go with your gut, be true to yourself.
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