I agree that it may be an issue of patience and trust. It may be a big turn off for her to have you expecting it all of the time. Knowing that you are just waiting anxiously for her to do it -> she doesn't want to have that kind of pressure and she doesn't want to yield to that kind of pressure. BUT...
Quote:
|
Originally Posted by zxello
'what is the big deal with it? why do you want me to do that so much.'
I couldnt give her a good answer to her question. Anyone have a good response?
|
You couldn't give her a good response? Uh, how about it feeling really awesome for you? Remind her of how good it feels for her when you go down on her, tell her you want to feel the same thing. How about it being a really intimate gift that a lover gives and you want to know that she feels that intimacy with you? How about it being a pretty normal part of most people's sexual menu and you don't want to miss out on anything with her? Damn, there are more and more reasons that you can give. Don't put the pressure on, but do let her know how you feel.
She might have more issues. Maybe some one in her past told her that only dirty girls do that. Maybe she had a bad experience with another boyfriend forcing it on her. Maybe she is just a selfish bitch who recieves but doesn't give. Better you find out now.