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Be a man, and give your attention and respect to the young lady. You make this a public display for him and you make it a public display for her - causing her embarassment and reliving that experience in the eyes of everybody who hears about it. Maybe it takes a week, maybe a year for her to want to deal with this, but your duty as a friend is to be caring, and show her that men can be kind, gentle, and trusted.
Even if you beat him up, are you going to protect her when he finds her alone and is more pissed and his ego needs to be puffed up? Don't put her in that kind of danger. Keep him out of your life and hers - you don't do that by pursuing this thing. Instead of spending money on lawyers or hospitals - spend a little on her and make her feel special again, I bet she could use it.
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Oft expectation fails...
and most oft there Where most it promises
- Shakespeare, W.
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