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Originally Posted by StormBerlin
He's so pissed right now, I feel bad for him. I never wanted to hurt him, but I knew I wanted to leave.
I just don't feel the same way anymore. It's nobodies fault. Just some words of encouragement would be nice  I'm going to move into my own apartment (no roomies, just me and my cat) and go to school and work and make it all on my own. Aren't you guys proud? 
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He will recover . . . if you weren't going to be happy being with him, you could never have made him totally happy either, he'll get that someday in retrospect.
You are totally correct. Breakups aren't either person's fault, usually, it's just because one person has outgrown the other. You might have fit together perfectly for a time . . . but it sounds like you are ready to move on and continue growing in your own personal life experience.
I applaud your bravery . . . it's never easy, but you've got to be True to Yourself . . . Good luck! Sending happy thoughts your way . . . !!!
sweetpea