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i agree with most of the other people--it's not your place to do anything about it. besides, you say both of these people are your friends and this happened while you were away, so what is his side of the story? does he deny it happened at all? does he say she was a willing participant?
as someone else stated, could she have slept through that? were drugs or booze involved?
regardless of how or why it all happened, even going on the assumption that her side is 100% accurate, still not your place to beat the hell out of him. if she's bothered by the experience, be a shoulder for her to cry on and help her find a support system to deal with what she's going through. if not, then let it go. unless she's telling everyone what happened, how exactly, do you plan to explain to all your mutual friends why you felt a need to beat up a friend of yours? by beating him up, you are just making her situation worse. she has to deal with what happened to her, the guilt over your actions (particularly if you get in trouble) and the questions from other people on what happened. beating him up may give you some measure of pleasure, but you'd just be making it harder on your female friend.
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