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yosho · 01-03-2005, 01:00 AM

well, I thought I would add my two cents here since I guess this thread somewhat applies to me. I'm a male originally from Taiwan, came to the US when I was 1.

I am currently dating a white female, blonde hair, blue eyes for almost 2 years now. So when I read this thread about the high level of asian female + white male relationships, I kinda sit back and laugh because it's definitely not just the females who are into caucasians.

Well, let me say first off that personality comes first no matter what. I don't really care if a person is white or asian as long as they're compatible with me. However, when it comes to looks, I find both asians and whites attractive. I sometimes dig the petite short cute asian look, but I also like the fully developed white female look. Therefore, I basically just picked the best match for me out of my choices with race being a rather small factor. I was raised in a pretty traditional family, and while sometimes, I wish I could be with someone who had an asian background, it doesn't bother me all that much.

As for the female aspect, I have several asian female friends who are into white guys. I have no problem with that since these girls are basically what we call "white washed" in that they have assimilated into American culture so much that the only thing asian about them is their looks. If they're attracted to white guys, then that's fine, since many asian guys are attracted to white girls as well, it may not be THAT common yet...but I believe you will see a lot more asian guy + white girl relationships in the future.

Anyways, the asian girls that arn't so assimilated into american culture still prefere Asian guys. I know this because I go to Cornell University which is like 30 percent Asian and many of the girls there tell me they feel way more comfortable with an Asian guy, especially if they came to American recently. Bottom line is that no one really needs to worry about anything especially regarding race and relationships. If it works for you, then that's all that matters. As for asian guys being left out of the dating circle, I would like to say that I have never felt left out at all so this has just never been an issue for me.

01-03-2005, 01:00 AM	#109 (permalink)
yosho Upright Location: Cornell U	well, I thought I would add my two cents here since I guess this thread somewhat applies to me. I'm a male originally from Taiwan, came to the US when I was 1. I am currently dating a white female, blonde hair, blue eyes for almost 2 years now. So when I read this thread about the high level of asian female + white male relationships, I kinda sit back and laugh because it's definitely not just the females who are into caucasians. Well, let me say first off that personality comes first no matter what. I don't really care if a person is white or asian as long as they're compatible with me. However, when it comes to looks, I find both asians and whites attractive. I sometimes dig the petite short cute asian look, but I also like the fully developed white female look. Therefore, I basically just picked the best match for me out of my choices with race being a rather small factor. I was raised in a pretty traditional family, and while sometimes, I wish I could be with someone who had an asian background, it doesn't bother me all that much. As for the female aspect, I have several asian female friends who are into white guys. I have no problem with that since these girls are basically what we call "white washed" in that they have assimilated into American culture so much that the only thing asian about them is their looks. If they're attracted to white guys, then that's fine, since many asian guys are attracted to white girls as well, it may not be THAT common yet...but I believe you will see a lot more asian guy + white girl relationships in the future. Anyways, the asian girls that arn't so assimilated into american culture still prefere Asian guys. I know this because I go to Cornell University which is like 30 percent Asian and many of the girls there tell me they feel way more comfortable with an Asian guy, especially if they came to American recently. Bottom line is that no one really needs to worry about anything especially regarding race and relationships. If it works for you, then that's all that matters. As for asian guys being left out of the dating circle, I would like to say that I have never felt left out at all so this has just never been an issue for me.