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Originally Posted by Jesus Pimp
... Some of us moved up here about the same time. They're all like yeah we'll hang out and stuff. Not one call. I call them. "Oh sorry I've been busy..". Me: "Can we schedule something then?" Them: "I dunno. I'll let you know." Months fly by. Like WTF? It's not like we don't have anything in common. We're all designers. So wouldn't it make sense to have some kind of network? ...
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Life has changed for them. Previously, they spend most of their week at school, or partying, or going out, and were meeting with people in that context. Now, they're in a different world, at work, and don't have a lot of time to party or hang out with old buddies. They meet new, different people, that have more in common with their *current* life than you do.
It's nothing to worry about, it's normal. They don't suddenly dislike you, or *want* to ignore you; they probably really don't have time or energy for you. In a few years, you'll be happy to see them once or twice a year, because *you* will have new friends too.