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if you care about her, you will talk to her very seriously about making a criminal complaint.
DO NOT beat him up. DO NOT CONFRONT HIM.
Contact a rape hotline, and try to get her to talk to them.
someone i know...had something very similar happen some years back on new years. it has caused her an endless measure of pain not to have closure...i don't blame her for not reporting it...but it might have made a lot of things better.
she's going to need you as a friend...and that's not going to happen if you're in the can for assualting this dickweed. stay calm, and do what's right for her, and not your ego. this is a tall order and won't be easy. but what you do when the chips are down like this will show what kind of person you can be. getting her the help she's going to need in processing this is crucial.
best of luck...don't hesitate to PM me...this is something i care about deeply, and i've got a little perspective on it. I wasn't there for her in these hours when it mattered. i had to clean up the absolute shitfest of a mess that got made by the guys who wanted to show that they were tough. they let her down something hard by doing it that way.
'cause now that asshat is still free, has raped at least two more women, impregnating one, and is now serving in the Navy.
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