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She needs to deal with her own victimization; first, she needs to realize she IS a victim, and second, she needs to ask herself WHY she didn't want to do anything. It may be that there's something in her past that makes her want to just make the present okay, regardless of what has happened to her. She is the one who has to take control of the situation, decide what is best for her, and follow through with it. Without that control, she just furthers her own victimization, and will allow herself to be victimized again. You're not doing her any favors by beating the guy up. The best you can do is be her friend, urge her to face facts, and see that she gets counseling.
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If I am not better, at least I am different. --Jean-Jacques Rousseau
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