looking back, i think my first partner could have improved the memory a LOT by giving me an orgasm as well. he lasted about 2 seconds and then he was done...which i now realize should have told me more about how our relationship would eventually go!
if you finish before she gets hers, finish her off too--use your hand, your mouth, a toy, whatever. but make your first time a pleasant experience for both of you. selfish lovers are the worst.
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