Just think would you rather her see you and give you a bad look, or you see her look bad (i.e. with a black eye). Personally I'd think you would most likely want the first. I don't think anyone should get hit. It just shows weakness. They can not control themselves. I aplaud what you have done. And hopefully tomorrow she will actually come by and thank you, unless she is too embarassed. But I do think next time you bring Loverboy with you, as there is safety in numbers, besides then it doesn't come down to "he said/she said" thing as there are other witness's.
Just another reason Nancy is turning into the most loved
member of the TFP...Concern for her neighbors!!!