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Originally Posted by Ustwo
And they would be wrong.
I didn't figure this out till I was 19. I'd had a 'so-so' sex life up until then, never seemed to be with a girl for a real long time. I was the dumpee not the dumper. Then I figured it out, that the reason the jerks seemed to do better with women was because they were jerks. I personally think its genetic, once a woman knows she can have YOU she sees if she can get something better, where as if you made her unsure if you were really interested she tries to get you instead of you trying to get her.
Stupid I know but thats how we act. Now you don't have to be a total jerk, but the woman has to feel you can take or leave her, but it won't bother you if you never see her again.
I went from off-on relationships going no where to dating three girls at once. One of them I eventually married.
About the time I figured all this out, I was at a party with a bunch of friends, mostly my friends and their GF's and I mentioned this. The women all said it wasn't true.....
Then after they were done sticking up for their sex two of them later, on their own, said it was true but they just didn't want the other girls/guys to know they agreed with me on it since it would be a 'bad example'.
Now obviously with sex and relationships, this doesn't apply to everyone but I think its safe to say a majority of women act that way. Most of you dont' even know it.
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It's been a while since this was posted, but I want to be sure to point out that while in my experience it is indeed true of some women, I've found that it is more consistently true of men.
While I don't remember anything particularly rude I said immediately after sex (unless you count "Uh, I think you've forgotten something.... and if you like seeing me wear your love juice and intend for this to be a repeat performance, I suggest you get cracking." heheh) I could be an absolute bitch when it came to the people I dated, male and female. In general, the women would take it sometimes, and when they did, they only took it for a while. But the men.... gods, I swear, the meaner I was, the harder it was to get rid of them. And I'm really not mean unless you don't follow the rules: I don't do exclusive relationships, I don't usually do "dates", I don't do possessiveness, jealousy or any other form of restrictive demonstration. What I do (did) do is fun, sex, play.... I was honest about the rules from the get-go, everyone knew what they were. If you followed the rules, you'd have an awesome time, a memorable experience, and you'd most likely get laid. Maybe more than once. And I'm good at it.... I don't play games, lie, offer bullshit. But I insisted on the rules, and if you insisted on doing things your way instead of mine, you were going to hear about it. Maybe that makes me a raving c**t, but I'm ok with that. And for the most part, most of the people I encountered (well, most of the women), once they'd pushed the limits and realized I was serious, were ok with that, too.... *shrugs*