I'm an aestheticist by nature... I love beauty. However, I think I've been blessed with the ability to find beauty in almost every person I've found. I've dated all shapes, and sizes, in my (very) limited experience, and they were all beautiful. None of them were supermodels, I think one of them really turned heads, but I still thought they were beautiful in their own way. I'm not being cheesy, it's true... I even hate some of them now, so I'm not just saying that to be nice. I still can find beauty in them all. And they all had unique and wonderful personalities. (I do however wonder now about my choices in personality back then, but that get's credited to my perception sharpening and my tastes developing for personality) I feel as though you need to be physically attracted to someone to make the relationship work. Shallow, but true. ::shrug:: it's a tough question, but that's my take on it, and my experiences with it for all that's worth.
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