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Take 2:
I tihnk it's not just jealousy. It's also a feeling that you don't have someone. That somehow if they can go out and get someone else and you can't, that there is something wrong with you. It makes you feel as though you shouldn't have left. That, she was worth more than you realized, that you had something that you shouldn't have given up.
The Truth: She's only not telling you about her escapades because she doesn't want you to feel this way. So it's not her fault. There is nothing wrong with you. Get back on the horse. I just got out of a 3-4 year relationship and my rebound happened in the nick of time (Right when my ex fucked 2 of my best friends then had a threesome with my current room-mate and my other friends dream girl, (but that's another story, sorry for the bitter moment)) I dated her for a few weeks, and it didn't work out, but it gave me the confidence I needed to get through the situation. Be carefull with rebounds though... they're tricky. I wish I had all the answers for that one, but I don't.
You're a good guy. you care about her and it seems like she cares about you. I suggest you start meeting new people. You don't need to cut connections, just find new people. It's always good to make new friends anyway. And when you find another someone that means something to you, it'll help, and if you don't, you'll still be good because you'll have new friends. Good luck, and happy hunting! : )
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