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someone i know goes out with two guys at a time--they're always both aware of it but they feel too uncomforable to say anything (out of fear that they might lose their shot with her). In her case, i think she's "trying to find validation." She wants to be the center of everyone's attention so that she can feel like she's loved, cared for, or what not. She was probably missing some of those emotions in her childhood. That could be the case with your girlfriends.
I don't know if i have a cheating heart, i've been in one relationship and at one point i was extremely attracted to someone i'd just met. I couldn't stop thinking about her: she became the subject of arguments between my girlfriend and myself. all i have to honestly answer why i felt that way is pretty similar to what your girlfriends said. I think my heart my just be a bit whimsical, which could've been the case for your girlfriends.
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