To expand a bit on what wombatman said, yes thrust in VERY slowly - espically since this is one of her first times. Go for the forplay for as long as is comfortable because forplay serves to prepare both of your bodies (moistening, etc.), not just to 'get in the mood'. Put on your rubber, and go in slowly. The first thrust should only go in about half way - most of her most sensitive nerve endings are near the entrance, not the back. Only speed up when she gives you the O.K. If you are starting to feel the moment comin for you, and you realize that it's only been like 38 seconds (which is totally normal), slow down the thrusts again, and think about something that isn't that sexy (sadwiches, wrestling, cars, politics, Christopher Walken, etc.). It might buy you some extra time.
When you do blow your load, it's gonna be nice for both of you (woman>hand).
Note: if it is starting to feel awkward, say something. If you're a funny person, say something funny. If you're a caring person, say something nice about her. It might also get her to start being more talkative about what she likes.
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