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I was thinking about an old situation with a very good friend of mine that was cheating on this then girlfriend, soon to be wife, (eventually they got divorced.)
I blew his cover intentionally and our friendship was strained for a period of time but it did heal.
As it was healing I respectfully asked him to make sure I didn't know about any future forays into spaces that he shouldn't go as if his future women become my friends my duty to friendship would mean that I would have to discuss things with them that would make it uncomfortable to everyone.
The more I think about this the more it's not any of your wife's business but she's being subject to it. In essence it's almost like sideways sexual harassment for lack of a better term.
Has she discussed it with her boss and friend to at least let them know that they should be more discreet to the point of not making it obvious to her?
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