I personally think that some people are just naturally better able to relate to kids. (Just like some people are better at relating to sick, elderly, disabled, etc.) However, we all have the ability to learn. If/when the time comes that you or your so wants children, take parenting classes, hang out with people with children, volunteer at a school, be creative! Don't be afraid, kids are people just like me and you. And, don't feel like you have to have children; being childless is a fine choice too!
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