| Is there a difference between "blabbing" the truth and simply not saying anything?  How much contact does your wife have the parties significant others?  I would not lie under any circumstance; but I also wouldn't find it necessary to mention anything without being asked.  (In the meantime, I'd be looking for another job as I would have no respect left for my boss and that is not good.) 
				__________________If you can go deeply into lovemaking, the ego disappears. That is the beauty of lovemaking, that it is another source of a glimpse of god
 
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