At this point in my life I'd probably be a 5 or 6.
I used to be somewhat higher on the scale, but I don't think I was ever a 10.
10 means, literally, anything goes. I draw the line at stuff that can result in permanent physical, emotional and/or psychological damage. In my hedonistic past I began to slip into some dark psychological/emotional territory with one partner in particular. In the end I decided not to cross that line.
It's still the most frighteningly intense relationship I ever had, but I don't want to go there again.
I still catch myself fantasizing about it, though.
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