I broke up with my last girlfriend (who lived with me for two years) by asking her: "Do you think we are anything more than best friends and lovers?" She just hugged me and started to cry.
I think that having a friend for a lover is very important, but there also has to be passion. That was what we lacked, and it killed our relationship. We are still friends however.
Trust me when I tell you that you do not want a girl who is just your best friend and lover. That is not enough. Attraction is possibly the key to any relationship. You need to be attracted to your partner. By their looks, and their personality.
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"Socialism is a philosophy of failure, the creed of ignorance, and the gospel of envy, its inherent virtue is the equal sharing of misery." - Winston Churchill
"All men dream: but not equally. Those who dream by night in the dusty recesses of their minds wake in the day to find that it was vanity: but the dreamers of the day are dangerous men, for they may act out their dream with open eyes, to make it possible." Seven Pillars of Wisdom, T.E. Lawrence
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