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Originally Posted by Arroe
These girls just play stupid mind games. Today I was sitting in my car with one of them and when she said something bitchy I just said "Why do you have to be such a bitch?" She's like "well you're really annoying sometimes."
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That's when you say "Oh my God, I'm SO sorry. I never realized how hard it must be for you to put up with me. I don't want to ever to put you through that again."
Then pull over and say "So get out. Now."
You need to get it into your head that it's your own fault for continuing to put up with that kind of treatment. The world is full of assholes who will walk all over you. They're won't get better, in 99.99% of cases there's nothing you can do to make them suddenly see the light and realize the errors of their ways, they're just assholes plain and simple. So it's on you to avoid wasting your time on them. Hopefully your experience with these "friends" will teach you how to recognize and avoid similar types in the future.
Stop calling them, and don't return their calls. Block their IM names. If they ask you to hang out, say you're busy. If they apologize and ask you to go hang out, understand that it's in all likelihood because they miss picking on you and respond accordingly. Life is really too short to put up with that kind of crap.