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Originally Posted by Arroe
These girls just play stupid mind games. Today I was sitting in my car with one of them and when she said something bitchy I just said "Why do you have to be such a bitch?" She's like "well you're really annoying sometimes."
What the fuck? I just bought her fucking starbucks and drove her around and I didn't do one thing annoying. maybe it's all the estrogen and she's on her period. who the fuck knows.
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Now just step back for a minute, pretend you are a complete stranger and read the above quote.
Take a deep breath.
Now think about the give and take nature of your relationship with these people...think about what you are giving and what you are getting back. My guess is that you are not getting anything for your efforts but grief.
If this is indeed the case, you need to cut ties with these people and stop being their doormat. People will take advantage of you as long as you enable them to do so...thus you simply need to make the decision--the
concrete and irreversable decision--that you will not allow this any longer. You must decide that your time and companionship is valuable and, at the very least, THEY should be making an effort to spend time with you.
Maybe you don't believe this right now, and if you don't then fake. Fake it until you make it true. It sounds silly, but buy simply standing up for yourself and acting like you are worthy, people will start perceiving you as such.
You deserve more.