The whole idea of having friends (I use the term loosely in your case) is to improve your life. Sounds like yours are more trouble than they're worth. The people you hung out with in high school really doesn't mean much in the grand scheme of things. A few years into college, you probably won't even remember half of them. I graduated 5 years ago, and talk to one friend from high school on a regular basis.
My advice would be to remember that you are in complete control of who you choose to associate yourself with. It's well within your means to quit hanging out with them and find another group. You're in high school; you're around probably several hundred of your peers every day. In the mean time before you find other people, there's no law saying you have to hang out with people every weekend. Read a book, pursue a hobby, get a job, or something along those lines that's productive and fulfilling.
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