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Man, ya gotta stick up for yourself. At one time i used to be in a situation kinda like that. i swtiched schools after grade six and some guy at my new school went after me for no reason, labeled as a wuss and worse. I always got along well at my old school and never had anyone push me around so i wasnt sure what to do. I didnt think it was right to be mean and never fought back. It started catching on and i started to lose my new friends because of it. this used to piss me off big time. Guys that i wasnt afraid of started to throw insults at me and i realized that i didnt have to put up with that from them. i eventually stopped caring about their feelings and took my own into account. i fugured they lost their right to have my sympathy.I started to fired back. when they realized i could get them back and get people to laugh at themwhen they attacked me they backed off and i started to get some respect. i started making more friends after and to enjoy school.
Till this day i still encounter assholes that try to elevate themselves by standing on me. As long as there are assholes out there this will be a problem, it wont stop in college(it will get better). its easier to diffuse this situation it before it starts, but if you keep letting people walk on you they will. my advice is too just fire back. If they are your friends and you want to keep them i wouldnt be mean, just some ballbusting would suffice. If they get mean when you do that or gang up on you i would say get new friends. Life is to short to hang around with bad people.
You can stand up for yourself and still be a good person. It will make life a hell of alot easier.
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