I've never been that big of a masturbator. At this point if I'm single, it's no more than once a week. If I'm in a relationship and happy, then it's almost never. My last relationship wasn't that great in the sex department, so there were plenty of times where I was left frustrated or just didn't want to be with her. A few of those times I took care of myself and in subtle ways would let her know hoping that she'd feel bad about it. I don't think she minded me masturbating, but I do think it bothered her that she was letting me down. She didn't change anything though. Oh well, that's long gone.
Also, I love to masturbate in front of a woman, and have her do the same.
Oh, also again, since I really didn't answer the actual question above, I've never had a S/O be upset or bothered by me masturbating. Probably because, like I said, I really hardly do it when I'm with someone. I can see that a woman would be bothered by it if the guy was strokin' it off on regular basis, because she's wonder why she doesn't do it for him, or why he doesn't come to her for it. I can see it bringing out insecurities.
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