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I have a question...if your wife suddenly came down with a medical condition, or was in an accident that made her unable to have sex....would you still be going out looking for some on the side?
What about your kids? Would they benefit from a divorce if it ever came down to it? In most cases divorce negatively affects children...even if the children are adults.
Sometimes you have to have the attitude...It's not just about me.
I agree 100% with everyone who said you need to discuss this openly. I'm not convinced that you have to tell her about the affair...that could be more damaging in the long run. Unforturnately you crossed the line before discussing it with anyone else...maybe you did and decided to go ahead anyways. The damage has been done, now it's just a matter of the extent.
Believe me, I understand your thought process...I've been in your shoes ... you can rationalize every decision. You have some tough choices ahead.
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