To number 1: "What were you doing?"
To number 2: "How fast were you going?"
To number 3: "Where at?
To number 4: "That sucks."
With the first three she's looking to tell a story. By providing the openings I have inserted above, you allow her to continue telling the story. She wants to vent. Let her vent. If you do this...chances are you will succeed.
