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Originally Posted by ShaniFaye
vox rox...the only problem I have with making them leave is my concious (sp?) The land our house is on is land his parents gave us when we got married so we'd have property to build our own house on when we got ready....I dont feel right in taking the house.
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Hey look, you just solved your own dliemma. Okay, it's not going to be one of those Bewitched "wiggle your nose" and it's done. But there you have it.
Move. Pack up, find a place to live in an area that YOU WANT to live, and take a hike. His/Her/Their problem is not your problem, even though you are allowing yourself to believe it. Go. Now. Let them figure it out.
That way, you and Dave can be happy, there's no more guilt about who owns what, you wont have to padlock your cupboards, and you can actually move forward based on accomplishments.
Do it, it will be empowering and symboic of the break you should actually have made when you first split up. Make it real, live your life and, most importantly, to your own self be true.
You can do it, and I think you know you can do it. Imagine the possibilities.
Easy? Not really. Rewarding? Absolutely.
Peace,
Pierre