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If we both choose to "self define" actions and/or words, than our entire argument is void. Obviously both you and I have different meanings of the same word, therefore we can continue this for four more pages and we will not get very far.
I never conclude my beliefs based on societies views, as you obviously do not either, therefore it all comes down to opinion, and in mine, one is gay if one has sexual relations with a member of the same gender, whether just once or on a regular basis.
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Well, I'd like to believe you, but...
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Originally Posted by Rdr4evr
What this argument comes down to are facts, and you can’t argue facts, but you can make excuses. Being subjective doesn’t change the fact that one committed a gay action.
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One can make as much excuses as one pleases, but the simple fact is, if you decide to pleasure a member of the same sex orally, you are either gay or bi. If you feel the need to use excuses for yourself and not consider yourself gay or bi, fine, but don't try and say sucking another guys’ dick doesn't make you one or the other, because it does.
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...suggest you're not at all open to self-definition or a person having an opinion about their sexuality that differs from "society."
I'm all for you agreeing with my point of view or for completely disagreeing with me and holding your own opinion that any guy that wants to suck a cock is really bi or gay (which
was your original assertion). But don't by duplicitous and say we're both right when your own argument suggests you don't agree with me!
I'm not trying to carry this on for four more pages and continue to deviate from the topic at hand, but, as you say in one of your posts, I'm calling it like I see it.