Therapy isn't a quick fix, it generally takes some time to get to the root of what is really bothering you. Some people, once they know what the problem really is, are done at that point, other folks, need some help dealing with the problem.
Dinner with his folks...
You know his parents already. They love him, and they know that he loves you, so therefore, they are going to love you.
What therapy will help you with is to help you see things more clearly, and not make a mountain out of a molehill. A lot of it you can probably do yourself.
They are coming to dinner. What's the worst thing that could possibly happen? Betcha your imagination could come up with someone pretty bad, but you know it would never happen. What therapy will help with to show you that your imagination isn't reality and nothing could be as bad as you imagine.
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Free your heart from hatred. Free your mind from worries. Live simply. Give more. Expect less.
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