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Originally Posted by Obtuse
Have your wife's looks deteriorated since you got married? The reason I ask is, a while back my wife gained a bit of weight and our sex life sort of went in the shitter for a while. She wasn't happy with how she looked and didn't feel sexy. Nothing I could do or say could convince her that I still found her attractive and wanted to be with her. Since then my wife has slimmed back down and everything is fine.
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Okay, so that sounds kind of similar to where I"m at. Except in my case she hasn't dropped the weight...yet. I'm expecting she will eventually. It's frustrating for us guys in this situation because we can't do or say anything. THey totally have us by the balls. If we want to have sex, they don't because they look/feel fat. If we say "maybe you should lose that weight and then you'd feel better" we're not any closer to getting any poontang.
I know this isn't what the thread is about, but it's an offshoot... comments?