OMG Pinkie.
I bought my wife a bullet/egg for her about a month ago - comes with a remote control at MY disposal.
Damn what fun at the crappy holiday parties. Anytime I want, without warning.....I think I get off as much as she does LOL.
The only "negative" I've experienced with it - wife and I were at a convention....I hit the remote....and about 4 other women were looking around for their husbands