Quote:
To raise a child and purposefully not instruct them in whatever belief structure you have developed leaves them rudderless.
Proper instruction will give them a moral compass and at the same time, encourage them to build their own as they get older.
|
You don't need religion to teach a child what's right and wrong. Religion, IMNSHO, merely confuses the issue.
"Why is it wrong for these actions to occur?"
"Because God doesn't like it."
Most religions (paganism included, alas) operate on the principle of the Divine Stick. Behave or we'll hit you with our stick, this can stick be eternal damnation (here's looking at you christianity) or threefold retribution (hey, Wicca). A child should be taught to discern what is right and wrong for itself, using a proven formula. I believe one exists within our society and it has nothing to do with religion*.
Quote:
I will not raise my son by one religion, but I will not denounce it or hide it from him. I will show him that everyone has a choice and that all religions can be a path to God, but that the truest religion is within ourselves. Following our heart will take us further than following words in a bible, etc. He can choose as he pleases, but I want him to experience it for himself and see the big picture, not just one little puzzle piece.
|
Amen, brother. My view exactly.
Just had to respond to this:
Quote:
I don't think that raising children in a religion is one of the worst crimes a parent can commit. There are much worse things parents can do to their children.
|
Like raise their kids to be patriotic? /joke
Yeah, so it was hyperbole to get the ball rolling. Apologies.
* Choice-theft. All actions recognised as a Bad Thing involve the removal of choice from another sentient being. Think about it, it really does work. No Divine Stick.