jorgelito

The answer is actually quite simple and I'm sure to ruffle a few feathers.

Asian women are self-hating. In our modern society we have been braiwashed to associate "white as right" and all things western as "correct" or superior. Just look at media images etc. It's not good or bad, it just is, so don't all excited and try and brand me a racist or whatever.

It's not just confined to Asians. Other races experience this as well. Look around. Lighter skinned people tend to be viewed as more attractive and successful people of color tend to "upgrade" by out marrying to lighter skinned or white folks for status or whatever. In addition, they move into "white areas" as well.

As for the Asian chick, anti fishstick, who said, "I don't find Asian guys attractive", that just proves my point. Most women tend to "fall" for men that most resemble themselves or their father. But because she obviously hates being Asian (cause it's not a cool race or whatever) she associates all things Asian as negative. It's also denial. "Oh I'm not Asian, I'm American", then distancing themselves and surrounding themselves with all white friends etc.

It's actually pretty sad.

As for white dudes, well, that's pretty obvious. They are objectifying, fetishizing, exoticfying their fantasy. They are more into the "trophy" novelty and the prospect of getting some Saigon Slut and "me so horny" loving. Just look at the previous posts and the subtext. Same goes for hot Latina (love that J-Lo) or Jungle sex with Halle Berry thinking.

Not one mentioned any individuality or anything of substance in their relationship with an Asian chick. Instead, stereotypes are used to justify behavior and sandbag entire demographics.

Perception is a powerful thing.

By the way, the whole height thing is ridiculous. That stereotype thing is outdated. Welcome to the millenium, you really can't think like that (or maybe you can but that's just ignorance). I've been to China, Asia and there's plenty of tall, short, skinny fat etc all over the place. Especially with better nutrition and stuff.

Also, Asians who try to distance themselves by buying into the race dynamic: dissing on other Asians etc are not helping but rather making things worse by reinforcing negative stereotypes and perpetuating falsehoods.

FaderMonkey, So the Korean girl who claimed that she didn't date Asian guys because they had small dicks has fucked all of them? What a slut! No, wait, she's an idiot and said something that you liked to hear and made you feel like a man. Thereby pleasing you and contributing to your continued ignorance (not a personal dis, just a theoretical example using your post).

Consider the following:
Black guys are notorious for "upgrading" - You'd think they are as desperate as Asian chicks. They're always trying to get with a white chick or lighter skinned minority. Maybe it's because blacker women have pussies that are just too darn loose for their big dicks. Or is it cause black chicks are too uppity and white chick are more demure and feminine?

Think about that for a minute. Now start substituting the racial descriptives and you'll start to understand the social phenomena. Try to see this post as an abstract. I used generalizations because I didn't want to write a freakin' 500 page dissertation with citations, footnotes etc.

One day (hopefully), all the so-called races and ethnicites will be so mixed up that nobody will give a flying-fuck what or who anyone is. I think the census numbers have shown increase in multi-ethnic population count (US). Slow, but steady. Say a hundred years or so, multi-ethnic will be the majority and whites, blacks, Asians whatever will be the minorities. *shrug*

Just my two-cents...