I bought this ingenius little device called the 'Space Invader' it's really not as intimidating as it sounds. It's one of the most powerful and versatile bullets i've used yet. You can actually put it inside of you, while you guys are fucking. He can feel it vibrating when he's deep in you. *perk* You can feel it against your G spot which = more intense orgasm.
I've also got another little bullet type vibrator. Cord free, it changes speed on a dial at the base of it. It's smaller than my pinkie finger. If you use it back door on either one of you, while fooling around/ having sex. It's not intimidating at all because it's so small. There's a small string just in case you have problems uhh, pushing it too far let's say.
You can also buy gel slips which you put over top of most toys you can buy. They resemble cock rings sometimes. If you already have a toy, go to the store, buy a little gel sleave (some of them have 'feelers' on them). If you ask, they should have "two hole" sleaves, so one of the rings could go around your man's penis, the other could hold your vibrator, thus stimulating him constantly, and YOU when he's inside.
Hope some of this made sense and is of use
Happy fucking
