Originally Posted by jorgelito

I think people are being way too sensitive and blowing things out of proportion.

For example: Live and let live.
Smoke, drink, eat all you want, I really don't care. I only care when your "rights" or lifestyle choices infringe upon mine. Tolerance is not the issue; I think we're ok there, however, I don't need to tolerate other people's choices aversely affecting my life.

I quit smoking cold turkey 3 1/2 years ago. I lost thirty pounds through good ol' fashioned diet and exercise in the past three months. It was my choice and I made a clear decision. I still drink beer and eat steak, I just don't supersize it. I don't impose my lifestyle upon others and expect the same courtesy in return.

In other words, pee in your own pool all you want, but just don't pee in mine.

People need to take responsibility and accountability for their own actions. For example: Credit works by rewarding the responsble user with the best rates and incentives. Conversly, if you don't manage well, you will suffer the negative effects.

I believe obesity and smoking should work the same way in insurance and services. If you're too fat, pay extra for the extra space (i.e. - on an airplane etc.). That way, no one can complain to you and you've paid for it. Health care and insurance should work the same way. The better you take care of yourself, the better the rate, services and care. SO if you smoke, pay a higher premium and shut up all the complainers and whiners that you're clogging the system. If you are healthy and exercise, you deserve a major discount and applause. Maybe a pat on the back for not burdening the rest of us.

I think this is a good idea. It is clear and concise and we knw exactly what we're getting. We can make clear and conscious choices. Something like that.

Also, "big fella" and "big boy" are terms of affection and friendliness. If it bothers you, definitely speak up and say so. Most people don't do it to be malicious, it's just an endearment. Like "Curly", or "Red" or calling the big guy "Tiny". I know lots of bald guys called " Chrome Dome" or "Melon head". I was referred to as "Baldy" for the longest time (for obvious reasons): My response: "Hey, bald is beautiful" *wink*

Good thread, good discussion.