want my girlfriend? she is the opposite - she wants to me to center my world around her, and if not, she's not happy. sounds to me like you would be a good guy for her.
seriously, though - we all have issues... i think this ex of yours feels trapped by her debts, by her child, and by everyone in general. being overbearing and emotional is only going to present to her the impression that you're trapping her as well - so instead of seeing the love and respect that is there, she sees another person who may potentially control her life in some way. she is VERY young to be OK with things, and i think that she has a ton of maturing to do.
i also know from experience that even if things turn around, the damage has been more then done to you and your relationship for anything successful to come out of it in the future. you might fool yourself into thinking it could work and maybe drag things out for a year or so, but in the end, it's the same old shit with women like this.
my advice - be a dick. if she crawls back to you, thats one thing. if she doesn't, it will make the break easier for both of you.
-chris
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