well... i know this isn't a comforting response, but you did make vows to eachother. "for richer or poorer, in sickness and in health." what you're going through now is probably peanuts compared to the extremes that do fall under your sworn vow.
the grass is always greener on the other side. you know that there are many many people who would trade w/you, right? so many would just like to have someone that loved them enough to be married. many more that are married pray for someone to be content w/their relationship as you say your wife seems to be.
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If you will not fight when your victory will be sure and not too costly, you may come to the moment when you will have to fight with all the odds against you and only a precarious chance for survival. There may even be a worse case. You may have to fight when there is no hope of victory, because it is better to perish than to live as slaves.
~ Winston Churchill
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