Suicide results from an individuals inability to handle the issues in their life. There was definitley more issues there than a broken piece of cement from years ago. It could be that his dad was abusive which, from my experience, is a big factor. There could be drug, drinking and dating problems. Having been distant from him for so long, there is probably tons of things that you just don't know about.
You are probably wondering why you started thinking about him right before this all occurred. Sadly, you will never know for sure. I know I tend to think about and miss the friends I had as a child and I think that the timing in your situation was a coincidence.
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