I miss The Buzz...local coffee shop here, where we'd sit for hours and hours and hours... playing cards, board games, just talking.
My little group always spent plenty of money (experimenting with latte flavors is fun
), but I guess too many people did the "one coffee, free refills" deal, since the place closed down last year
When I was a waitress, I didn't care how long someone took up one of my tables...as long as they either kept ordering or tipped well (or both).
In your situation...I would've ordered another coffee and stayed right where I was.