hah, me and my baby (girl) both had elaborate androgynous phases before we met so this dilemma was basically a given in our relationship. being attracted to one sex and committing to one person isn't very different than being attracted to both sexes and committing to one person. also, i've found in bi-people i've met (who are bright and honest) that the commitment is actually a very large turn-on, as in our case. people like to have limits.
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