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Originally Posted by Grumbling*Girl
Onetime2, just checking in to see if you have an update. Glad to see you've had some good discussions (same here; he's made some major changes already) Hope that you guys are making progress.
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It's been an up and down kind of thing but we seem to be pretty well on our way to complete healing. Long talks and some hurt feelings here and there but we've decided on a plan and I think it will all work out.
We got her an apartment with a six month lease. She's going to be on her own so she can have that experience and prove to herself that she's capable. She hopes to confront her parents about some of the ways they've treated her and this could be one of the supporting factors that give her the courage to do it. I'm all for that. But even if she doesn't go that route she will be better off for having been on her own for a while. The wedding is still planned for next October and we're almost completely back to the good relationship we had. In time I'm pretty confident we'll be back to the great relationship we've had for most of the 7 years.
Hope you're making progress as well. Working together is s hell of a lot better than working against each other!