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Originally Posted by jaded
well, think of this the other way around: if it is your husband who jerks off online with men or women he met on the internet, would you feel comfortable about it? would you consider it cheating or merely his way of spicing things up for himself without you in the know? that would be the most lenient test of whether this constitutes cheating, because even if you could accept him doing that behind your back, he might not be as \"liberal\" as you.
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I don't think that works for two reasons:
Relationships always have two different roles. Usually it's the outgoing person, and the introvert.. The whole opposites attract thing. I know for myself, and my husband, he loves coming home after I've been a naughty girl online, (women usually require more foreplay than men) so he loves to find me wet and ready to do all the things I just discussed with a total stranger. He often reads over my shoulder, and gets turned on, even putting his hands in my panties, and feeling how turned on I am...
Last night we were IMing back and forth as I chat with someone else too.
If my husband did what I do, I'm not sure I'd get as turned on as he does with me doing it. He loves the idea of others lusting after me, but I'm a total exhibitionist, he's not. He's very private a secretive. He doesn't even disclose our sexual lives to his closest friends. If he was like that, I might not have been attracted to him in the first place, I don't think.
I
love my private boy.
