Physically? Whether or not they look healthy and pack some muscle. Anorexic girls with pipestem arms and sunken faces don't do it for me. Also, bone structure -- a well-proportioned face, good cheekbones, a strong and shapely neck. All of the women I've dated or admired (and the one I married) have these features in common, although they might otherwise be heavy, slim, or indifferent, big-breasted or small-breasted, blonde or brunette, light or dark.
Emotionally, I'm attracted with women who have a sense of humor and some good self-knowledge. Wise women, in other words, who aren't afraid to be silly when its the best thing to do, or show their vulnerabilities. Women without a lot of artifice.
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