Sounds like the party is just a surface issue she's using to work out a bigger problem she perceives in your relationship. Without knowing more details, I can't say what that is, but usually something like this arises when some concern or complaint been festering and it just comes out in a random way. Best way to deal with it is to ask gently what's really bothering her and do your best to keep things as non-adversarial as possible. This isn't a woman issue, it's an issue that people have when they don't know how to communicate about what's bothering them.
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