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This girl I was dating once asked if I'd consider having a 3some. We talked about both FFM and MMF and she was on for both. This conversation came up once in a while although we never did anything about it... mainly because we never could think of the right person nor did we try asking. There were many rules: if it was a girl, then I can't penetrate her; same if it was a guy, but I also wanted to make sure that the guy was someone i know and trust that will never call her on the side.
Anyway, once we were chatting and she started to suggest names, and out came names of my friends etc. I was seriously considering asking them and I said I would. But later I thought about it and realized that while it was a fun thought, I don't think I could handle it the day after. But thats not the point. The point is.. my girl started to get pissed at me cause while she was asking those questions, she was also not pleased with ther fact that I'd let her have sex with someone I knew. She felt that I didn't love her that much and that I didn't respect her. This became a turning point in our relationship. Well, little did I know that talking about our fantasies could have led to her getting insecure.. after all, its just talk and she was participating in it as well.
So would I do it?
FFM - sure I would. Best if neither of the girls was my gf. But if one was, I think I would be happy watching her get on with the other girl.. I don't need to get too involved.
MMF - yeah i think I could. I think only with a guy friend and a girl who's neither of our partners. I'd be happy to oblige any girl who wants some fun. Don't expect action between the guys tho.
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