Sorry dude, but she's trying to have her cake and to eat it too.
Don't let her use you for the "warm & fuzzies"
Use you for comfort when needed, walk away when not.
You are not a yo-yo.
Words count with you, true interaction counts with you.
This is one time where the lady needs to step up to the plate.
She needs to make a commitment to your relationship, to YOU.
Not marriage, but to YOU and YOUR needs & desires.
This is NOT just about her.
Otherwise, let her go.
It doesn't sound like you are one of those men
who can just be "friends with benefits", at least with THIS lady.
Your feeling are much too significant for her.
Sounds like you need it to be just a bit more.
Just my observation & opinion.
Last edited by rogue49; 05-13-2003 at 04:59 AM..
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