why have structure on the first date? Thats how i decide if i'm really compatable with someone or not. Just choose a place to meet and wander until your find something. For example, i went on a first date with a girl a few years back with the same idea, and we found a really small marionette theater tucked away in an alley, definately a date that stands out in my mind now. All of that conventional movie/dinner/bowling/etc stuff has been done. Chances are she's been on dates like that a million times before. The cookie-cutter relationship thing just doesnt work for me, i've seen movies, but i want to live something else.
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