scarletletter

You're selling yourself short if you feel the need to define yourself based on men or relationships. Women need to define their own individual role in society first, not as a partner in a relationship, or a member of a group. once they have done that they can define their relationships as A PART of who they are, not WHO they are. it makes me so mad when i see women in my classes basically in college to find a husband because in their mind "thats just what you do" you need to live your own life. a husband/boyfriend/significant other is just something great that happens along the way.